Safety Planning

It is important that plans be made ahead of time. Then, during a violent incident, the plan can be implemented without having to consider what to do.

A. Plan to leave, even if you don’t think it will be necessary. Then, if you need to leave, you will be ready. Have duplicate car keys, bus tokens or cab fare hidden outside in a safe place that can be immediately accessed. Other items that should be available: all important papers such as passports, birth certificates, bank books, school records, immunization records, medical insurance cards, Social Security cards and Order of Protection.

B. If an argument is inevitable, attempt to move to a room where there are no weapons available (kitchen knives, guns, tools) and where there is more than one exit from the room.

C. Identify a code word that your children will recognize as a signal to call the police.

D. Discuss a safety plan with your children and identify which neighbors they could go to for assistance.

E. An order of Protection can be obtained, though there is no guarantee that your abuser will abide by it. If you obtain an Order, keep a copy and proof that it has been served with you at all times. Be sure your child’s day care center or school has a copy as well.

F. Prepare a safety plan to use when you are at work, or on your way to and from work. You should vary your route and if you can, don’t travel alone. Alert your employer to potential problems so that you can be assisted.

G. Help is available. Consult your local shelter or safe home for further information on safety planning and other services that are available.

These are only a few suggestions to help increase your safety. For a more personalized safety plan please contact Chrysalis at 602-955-9059 or the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence at 1-800-799-7233.